who are you and what do you want?

i know this sounds like a line reverberated at a crank caller, but seriously kids....this question is quite relative and timeless. i got to thinking this morning, the concept of who we are is continously changing with graduations, jobs, relationships, whatever...but the concept of what we want is supposed to be timeless. is it really? does everyone really want the same things they proclaimed to want when they entered college? left college? in my case entered law school? i highly doubt it. so why does everyone pretend that they're "living the dream" when the dream they're living died years ago? i've come to the conclusion we can't all decide who we are in an instant decision....and as for me, i think i'd like to design stationary.....